It’s been a long time since the last entry.So here goes. Merry Christmas, Happy New Year, Happy Muslim Calendar New Year, Happy Chinese Lunar New Year, and of course Happy Valentines everyone. That’s bout all the Holiday I’ve missed Greeting
Through the course of me not writing any post is because I’m leaving myself sometime to let things sink in. Rather than Bragging and Preaching or anything some people like to call it. I think it’s better that we take care some of the newcomer for a while.
So What is “The ‘BIG’ Secret” you say. It’s a simple Law derived from a scientific theory on the study of quantum physics. Or for some the miraculous cure of the souls, and some like to call it the Law Of Attraction.
The Basics is as simple as it is, You Attract more of whatever you think and feel at the moment to you. One very important thing is that you dun know when and exactly what you will attract but you know that by feeling bad you attract more bad, or guilt you’ll attract more guilt, which they called, “Likes Attract Likes”. Simple enough. Who are they you mean, that’s who ever believe or practice it. It’s not a cult nor a religion. Just a believe, if you believe there’s such Law then you will have faith in it. Of course some of you skeptic would call it a way of diverting you against your religion. Actually I believe and for me it is my God that brings this to me. And it only given me more faith and more understanding in my belief.
So what it does. To me it’s a universal law of nature, that when we releases out energy or some called it vibration, like a magnet or radio, you receive the same signal or energy or vibration back to you sooner or later. Time is not the essence, cos universe orchestrate in it’s own wat to bring you what you pray or wish for. Or think bad of. So for good stuff you can’t rush it. Nor could you say no to an on coming bad news. But in this law there’s one truth, you can only attract whatever it is you feel to yourself alone. You can’t attract it to others or help to attract it to others because everyone feel and think themselves.
So in all the context of the word: here’s the list of conclusion of the Technical of list fanatic nerd out there.
You attract what you feel and think.
Likes Attract more likes.
and you can only attract of yourself.
So in this three “truth” of concept in mind. Let’s start exploring what it defines.
If you want badly to feel good and live a good life now, then take charge and start think and feel good only. Purge yourself and block and release and let go or in any way you like leave all bad thought and feelings out of your system. Then you’ll start taking in, seeing and feeling the difference in your life.
But how come sometimes bad things still happen. That’s because before this you do think bad or sometimes in the practice you can’t avoid thinking and feeling bad feelings. So those feelings and thought catch up with you. So what you do. Since we know thinking and feeling about them will bring more bads…. So we stop thinking about bads…. Or block them out. What if you can’t ignore it? we are not saying you should force yourself in doing something you don’t want cos that would means you’d attract of something you don’t want to do. Just let it happen and remember to see the happiness and positive side of stuff whenever you can and need to. Like great memories of the loved ones who dies. I take my father death as in a way that God takes all good being early to be by His side and now this good soul is my ultimate Angel. You can turn every negative feeling into positive if you want to.
Greed, Boredom, Hatred, Anger, Embarrassment, Lonely, all that can be interpreted or act upon differently and becomes good. As some of the practician of the law says, “Grudge, and Anger or Jealousy is like a poison you take and wish the other person would die”. So Release the Greed and instead obsess yourself with enthusiasm, boredom and loneliness replace them with self time to inspire yourself and provoke your inner soul and be creative. Embarrassment, turn it into a joke and it become humor, Anger and Hatred, this is the biggest baggage most people holds on to. Choose to forgive and forget and let it go and live on with your life instead of holding on grudge. Dun you feel tired? I blame my dad’s death on someone before and make myself a typical victim of single parent hood and over think myself into doing a lot of low self esteem and raging foolish things. But now I feel liberated and letting go and seeing peace in my mind and lay my belief on peaceful soul instead of war and guilt. So you choose to forget and say all your forgiveness.
To further improve in attraction, after you cleanse yourself of all the “Dirt”, you go on every time you meet something Good you say the better is yet to come. And when bad things happen, you don’t dwell on it. I just choose to think that it’s necessary to happen to bring the next best thing to come. And as Sir Charles Bronson says, “Don’t Fuss about the small stuff…and all stuff are small” and they are indeed, think of how many times you curse when you hit a traffic jam, and for me most of the time it’s what needs to happen to bring me my perfect parking space at me destination shopping mall.
And when you can’t find a parking space that’s right, don’t fuss just stop take a deep breath and I usually see a couple or family coming out of the lift lobby right after that. Just stop and let the pieces fall into place. These things are trivial really compare to the best time you’ll have with your family or friends and your great relationship with your lover. So don’t fuss about something that doesn’t have a life and let it control your life. Simply choose to live your life to the fullest and with your mind fully in it. one more thing to let you think about, “how many times in that split second you curse the parking space and ruin your night with your date?” so y not choose to let go and focus on the date and have great time and feelings instead? Instead of presenting yourself as bitter in that split second you becomes charming.
So you have a friend that needs help. What can you do since you can’t attract “good” for him/her. You don’t have to do m,uch but make him/her laugh, or let him/her purge and release all the “Poison” out. But purging is a bit dangerous, cos he/she may attract more of what he/she is feeling if they are too passionate in the issue and become obsess in telling those feeling and feel it deeply every time. And as for you, just think you are there “acting” as a listener not a garbage can, you don’t have to take “it” in you. It’s non-of your business and it’s not yours. Focus on begin there for her and pray and wish for all the good things for him/her.
And one more important things is that you don’t have to force yourself into doing anything you don’t want. Just start with small stuff that you are comfortable with. Its not an exercise you “have” to do. No one is forcing you hands. It’s all your choice. Oh and one more thing, stop saying you “want” something and start saying you “have” something. Because what you want is exactly what you lack of and you are feeling what you lack of. Believe in what you have and focus on your target, life’s mission and not just things and stuff. That are not living your life, you are. So what’s your most desire perfect life is. You don’t only want the Ipod or a Mercedes or Phantom or a Great big mansion. What you want is a great life with yourself, with your friends and family, and freedom. All this is what’s important. When and Mercedes will come at the right timing. There’s no need to force it and instead put yourself in debts and lock yourself in a financial cage. To choose life and not stuff. Remember? All Stuff are small stuff what matter the most is your target in your mind.
So My wishes to all of you. And may your life be as exciting and inspiring any great being on this earth.
